Saturday, June 19, 2010

Summer Reading List

For me, summertime has always meant reading time. I inherited it from my mother. She loved to sunbathe and read paperback novels while my younger brother, sister and I splashed about in a kiddie pool in the backyard.

Mother read compulsively. And every time she finished a book she would proudly proclaim, "This is the best book I have ever read." Until she read another book, and then that became the best book she had ever read.

Of all the books mother ever read, the one that sticks out most in my memory was Herman Wouk's The Winds of War. It was a tome. Even as a young girl I remember thinking this was an unusually long book and recall it lying about the house for weeks on end.

One late summer afternoon with sprinklers swishing and lawnmowers humming in the distance, mother put her swimsuit on, spread a blanket onto the lawn and laid down to finish The Winds of War. Hours passed and right before finishing the last few pages, she got up for a quick break and left the book lying open face on the lawn, pages fluttering in the breeze. When she returned, she found our beagle slobbering and chewing on the book, the very last page missing.

This was bad, I remember thinking to myself. Up until that point in time, Old Yeller had been the longest book I had read and it seemed like the Oxford English Dictionary. I couldn't imagine what it must have felt like to read a book this long and not be able to finish the last page. For the first time in my life, I felt sorry for my mother.

We had no money to buy a new book and the library was closed. And lord knew no one else in our nonliterary circle had this atrociously long novel lying about. "Whatever will you do?" I remember asking my mother. But mother was a sly one. Swiftly she threw on a white blouse and some flip flops, loaded my brother, sister and me into the station wagon and without saying a word, drove like a mad woman to the downtown drugstore. Where in the door she strutted, red faced and bare legged, three soggy kids in tow, straight toward a spinning rack of books, picked up The Winds Of War, read the very last page, then gently placed it back upon the rack, turned and strutted out the door. Three elderly men stared, jaws agape, at the spectacle they had just witnessed. And I was impressed with my mother that day and never forgot The Winds of War.

Years later, during a late night college game of Trivial Pursuit, before my husbands drunken buddy could slur the words out of his mouth, I knew the answer to, "Who wrote The Winds of War"?

It is rare moments like these when I cherish my kooky, crafty mother the most. She didn't give me much, but she instilled in me a love of reading and books and for that I will be eternally grateful.


So what's on your summer reading list?

Nothing so long as The Winds Of War, I hope.

I am needing some ideas.

These are the books I have read so far ...

Anyone have any other suggestions?



Thursday, June 17, 2010

A Moment To Brag

Pardon me while I take a moment to brag.


For anyone living in the Oklahoma City or Edmond area, my son will be performing at the Vintner's Cellar on 15th and Bryant, in Edmond, on Saturday from 6:00 to 8:00 pm..




It's a cool place to kick back, relax, and enjoy some great wine and music.

My son just graduated from college and is a talented musician.



There's nothing more enjoyable than good food, wine and music, and spending time with family and friends.

Friday, June 11, 2010

Henry and Edith



Society seems to be stuck in the fast lane.
Busy, these days, seems to be the norm.

Sometimes when I bump into friends on the street, I find myself compelled to convey an illusion of busyness, just because one feels inferior if one is not busy.


Heaven forbid you have a quiet day with nothing to do but set beside a pond and think and read a book.
If Thoreau could see us today...

That is what I keep telling myself.
But I know better.

Because, if there is one thing I have learned from literature, it is that mankind, over time, has changed very little.

Henry David Thoreau escaped to Walden's pond in search of a simpler life.

In a trance of endless social engagements and mindless activities, Edith Wharton wrote Twilight Sleep.


Thoreau died in 1862.

Edith was born in 1862.

One began where the other left off.

Both authors had a sense of how hectic life can be ...

Mankind, it seems, has always been busy.

Or, are we just busy being mankind?




Walden Pond


I know Thoreau well.

Not through his books.

I tried reading "Walden" once and all I could think of was show me the damn pond so I can throw myself in and spare myself the agony of this book.

I know Thoreau because I live with him.

My husband is Thoreau.

My husband could spend two years setting beside a pond.

Come to think of it, when we were dating, I lived near a pond. And while my husband pretended to be visiting me, in reality, he was really visiting the fishing pond … should have been a sign.
Now that I think about it, I realize hubby and Thoreau share the same birthday.
Ironically, Edith and I share the same birthday.

Coincidence?

I think not.

As I began this post, Thoreau and Wharton were the two authors whose works came to mind when I thought about mankind and how hectic our lives have become. Each wrote - although with very different style - on this very subject.


As it happens, hubby and I share more than just birthdays with these authors.
We also share a love of place.
Thoreau loved his pond and preferred a simple life in the woods.
While Wharton, on the other hand, appreciated the finer things in life and lived in a mansion and wrote The Decoration Of Houses.

So I guess it should come as no surprise when hubby wants to live in the country, while I prefer the city with its art and architecture.

Wharton split her time between The Mount and Europe.

Who wouldn't want that?

Thoreau spent two years on an isolated pond in the woods.

zzzz ... zzzz.


The Mount

Hubby and I, it seems, are the modern day equivalent of Henry and Edith.

Two complete opposites coming together through place and time with absolutely nothing in common but a love of place and an appreciation of books.

Next month we will be married twenty-nine years.

It's a union of mutual respect.
I respect the fact that he likes to go fishing and wander about in the woods.
He respects that I am a town mouse and prefer cafes and libraries and big old houses on tree lined streets.

Edith Wharton
Henry David Thoreau


I guess the moral of the story is, before you marry someone, check their birthdays.